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I am, at present, head-long into seeking out Christ's purpose for my life. It's a beautiful journey, fraught with many spiritual perils, but I've run from the Spirit long enough to know that when you turn around, there He is.

I own a theatre company (you have to make your own opportunities). And, no, it's not my day job (are you kidding! Who can live on $100/month?) I enjoy studying philosophy, sociology, science, and theology. I also love to be outdoors or (quite the opposite) watching movies!

I play guitar and sing.
I love The Alan Parsons Project, David Arkenstone, Oingo Boingo, Amy Grant, some techno-music. My music collection is extremely eclectic.

I am in the center of studying God's grace. I was brought up in the Church of Christ and, honestly, growing up I think I heard ONE lesson on grace. No longer aligning myself with that branch of service, I am looking for what God's church looks like. You know what I'm finding? It looks like every one of us! Yes! I was so surprised! See, the church I grew up in was VERY judgmental with NO room for error. No kidding. Yes, there was love. But love without grace is a very limiting expression.

I'm divorced with two children. Girls. Ages 7 and 2. They live their mom. Two of the biggest hearts you'll ever meet!

So, that's where most people will probably stop reading:) That's ok. I know that God has a heart beating in time with mine somewhere.

I'm looking for a woman who is pure, genuine - a woman who has the strength to speak her mind because the Holy Spirit has endowed her with that freedom. Freedom! What a beautiful state for the soul!

My heart is open and I thrive on communication (I know...I'm a guy! Now, there WAS a time when I didn't communicate. But I'm over that) Maybe it's safer to say that I strive for articulation. Ya, that works better.

Communication IS extreme in the sport of importance. So I'm working on that. Men have it rough. We're not often given the best role models as children. I can be tough, but I AM affectionate. Actually my two love languages are touch and words of affirmation.

What are yours?

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
BuildFit
Height178 cm
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorBrown
Best featureEyes
Body ArtNone

Situation

Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenChildren don't live with me
Wants kidsYes
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Masters
SpecialtyArt / Music / Literature
Employment StatusFull-time
Annual income$25,000 - $50,000

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesCartoons
Favorite TV showsHistory Channel, Turner Movie Classics
Favorite movies typesAction
Favorite moviesPeter Pan (live-action), Far and Away, Braveheart
Music typesCountry
Favorite artistsAlan Parsons Project, David Arkenstone, Oingo Boingo
Reading selectionBiography
Idea of funDepends on the mood. Driving on roads not traveled; going to the bar; reading a good play script; frisbee golf; hiking; watching a movie; playing guitar; talking; going to live theatre; working on live-theatre; actually, anything to do with live-theatre; home improvement projects; learning to dance; walking; theorizing about society; going to a coffee house.
HobbiesExercising

Personality

SmokerDon't smoke
DrinkingLight / social drinker
Social behaviorReserved
Friends describe asFriendly
In High School I was a(n)Nerd
Sense of humorClever
My great timeStaying at home
Always wanted to tryAnything I would like to try I make time to do it. Unless it takes a lot of money like travel. I need to start traveling to Europe and Australia.

Views

Political viewsI don't like politics
Attend religious servicesEvery day
Goal in lifeI'm trying to figure out what my purpose is. Not what I'm supposed to do, but my Purpose according to the Spirit. I would like to raise Godly children, support my wife as she stays at home (if that be her desire), be involved in youth ministry (either in the church or drama ministry or theatre). I want to lead others to the Christ I have discovered through self-seeking, prayer, silence, and scripture. I need to write a play someday.

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence
On the first dateFrisbee golf; how many constellations do you know?; live-theatre; a nice day-hike; how about just meeting in a parking lot and sharing a hug?; go to church (ooh, that's a toughie!); you could let me remodel your kitchen; perhaps just a shot of brandy or a soft glass of wine at an obscure bar downtown would do.